You don’t have to be mean to be cool.


I’m sure you’ve all seen the movies where the most popular girls in school are also, coincidentally, always the meanest. It’s almost as though the media wants to attribute being popular to being mean, maybe because its more exciting when an ice queen rules the school rather than your typical nice girl, who knows. However, it’s instilling this idea, this mentality, that in order to be well-known, a person must show at least some degree of coldness.

Always be kinder than you feel.

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Live a Little, Take Some Risks!

Sometimes I think about all the missed opportunities I had. What would have happened if I had taken those chances instead if sticking with what I am comfortable with.

Do you ever just think about how one little thing can change your life forever. Its absolutely mind blowing. I can’t even fathom how I would react if my life changed drastically. I’m used to normality. It’s what I’m comfortable with. And I like doing what I am used to…


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Forget what you feel and remember what you deserve.

I feel like we, as humans, are often hung over on things that happened in the past. We focus way, way too much on something that we are unable to change, but we try anyway. I for one am guilty of this on more than one occasion. I just keep on worrying and overthinking about things that are completely out of my control.


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Just simple things, not diamond rings.


Sometimes, happiness may seem difficult to achieve. You might think that you need that nice new car or that gorgeous little black dress that you saw while on an impromptu shopping spree and didn’t have enough money to get. Maybe its that cute boy that sits behind you in class or even that dog you saw at the pet store. Although these things may bring some happiness, it is most often temporary and will soon fade. You will get bored of these materialistic things and seek for something much more fulfilling.

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How to feel better and become better.

we buy things...

I feel like human beings have a deep-rooted need or want to impress others. Whether it be with their appearance, money, clothes, car, occupation, social status… For whatever reason, we often put the opinion of others over our thoughts, over our feelings. Maybe because we think others’ approval equates to our happiness. Or maybe its just because we want to be liked and loved by others.

Don’t cross oceans for people who wouldn’t cross a puddle for you. (+)

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